Connection to the self through reflection and isolation produces healing. — Human connection is a beautiful need. It makes sense why we place so much emphasis on the company of others because we need it to feel loved, accepted, and closer to ourselves at our core. However, we have another need that can lose priority next to human connections. A connection…

One writer's advice for starting a small business — Do you dream of running your own business? For many people, having the freedom to pursue their passion and work on their own terms is an important ambition. Being able to build wealth for yourself, not someone else, and follow your own interests sounds amazing. But, the reality can often…

Making money as a writer, even if it’s through temporary side gigs, is something to be proud of. — Every writer knows how difficult it can be, trying to earn a living doing what you love. In an ideal world, you would be paid well to write every day, but unfortunately, it can take a long time for a writer to reach that point in their profession. The trick…

Moods are more subtle than emotions but can significantly affect us. — Pride, compassion, envy, melancholy: what emotions invade you today? Moods are more subtle than emotions but can significantly affect us. We can repress them, hide them or reject them, but we will deny our authenticity. Being aware of them helps us to balance. Moods, unlike primary emotions, are less intense but more lasting and influential. They may seem weak…

External focus only threatens internal peace — People with whom we have less affinity can help us to be more patient and calmer, to discover our true strength. The term “enemy” has led to discomfort for many. An enemy can be depicted as sounding too strong and focusing entirely on someone or something else. There is something we can learn about the concept of enemies. The Dalai Lama is one of the people…

Live your Life or Live in Regret — You’re all busy, so I’ll keep this brief. For many of us, there are shelves full of things we wanted to do but haven’t found the right time. For others, there are hopes of accomplishing something which is idly waiting in your queue. Looking for a sign to get going…

What to look out for if you meet someone with an avoidant attachment pattern — The avoidant attachment style is developed when a child is consistently discouraged from seeking help when hurt emotionally or physically. These children learn that if they suppress how they feel, they will not be ignored by their parents at a young age. With this form of attachment, children are usually…

I myself am a fan of the notorious personalities that we all should fear. — Mind hunter, You, Bates Motel, The Ted Bundy tapes. Audiovisual productions about criminals, especially those of serial killers, do not stop increasing and adding followers and addicts. What do these series hide to exert such seduction? It is surprising how much audiovisual productions about criminals have increased. Mind hunter, You…